Happy Anal April! A Treat Is Waiting for You

April is about more than brighter mornings and the first real signs of spring. At Desirel, we’ve got something far more exciting in mind. Say hello to Anal April: an entire month devoted to one of the most talked-about, most misunderstood, and seriously most underrated kinds of pleasure. And right at the heart of it is one very special date: 18 April, Anal Sex Day.

Yep, it’s a real thing. No, you probably don’t need to add it to your office diary. But your private calendar? That’s another story.

So, What Is Anal Sex Day, Exactly?

18 April is widely known online as International Anal Sex Day, and the story behind it is every bit as cheeky as you’d imagine.

It all goes back to 2014, when Australian comedian Jim Jefferies brought up the idea during one of his stand-up routines. His logic was simple enough: if Valentine’s Day exists for romance, why shouldn’t there be a day celebrating something a bit more adventurous? The joke caught on fast, and fans of less conventional fun ran with it. As the years passed, the idea kept spreading, and on 18 April 2020, online mentions hit their biggest peak yet, securing its status as an unofficial internet holiday.

Is it an official international day recognised by the UN? Not even close. Is it embraced by millions of curious, open-minded adults across the world? Without a doubt.

And honestly, we think one day hardly feels like enough. That’s exactly why we turned it into a full celebration with Anal April.

A Quick Look at the History of Anal Pleasure

Before we get into the fun part, it’s worth taking a quick glance at how the conversation around anal pleasure has changed over time.

The phrase "anal sex" first appeared in medical writing in 1935. Back then, the topic was approached in a cold, clinical way and was often heavily judged. Then came the late 1960s, when the Sexual Revolution and the Gay Liberation Movement helped transform how people talked about sex, desire, and anal play. From that point on, discussions became far more open and honest.

Today, anal pleasure is widely recognised as part of healthy adult sexuality. It isn’t some fringe interest. It isn’t something that has to stay hidden away. It’s simply one of the many ways people enjoy their bodies and connect with a partner. And when you’ve got the right products, the right pace, and the right attitude, it can feel absolutely incredible.

Never Tried It? This Bit Is for You.

If you’re curious, you’re already in the perfect place to begin. Maybe you’ve heard people talk about it, maybe you’ve wondered what the appeal is, or maybe you’ve wanted to try but never quite known where to start. Anal April is your invitation to explore it properly, in your own time, with no pressure and no expectations.

Here’s what really matters: anal play isn’t about doing too much too soon. It’s about taking it slow, staying relaxed, and using plenty of lube. That’s the foundation. That’s what makes all the difference.

A small, smooth anal plug is one of the easiest and most comfortable ways to start. It helps your body ease into new sensations gradually, without feeling rushed or overwhelmed. You stay in charge the whole time. And loads of beginners find that the moment of hesitation quickly turns into a very pleasant surprise.

• Lube is essential. The anal canal does not self-lubricate, so using a good lubricant is an absolute must. For silicone toys, choose a water-based lube. For metal or glass toys, a silicone-based anal lubricant gives you a smoother glide that lasts much longer.
• Start small. A slim, tapered plug with a flared base is ideal when you’re new to it. It slides in more easily and stays in place safely.
• Relax. Take deep breaths. Go slowly. There’s no reason to rush, and the more relaxed you feel, the better it tends to feel.
• Cleaning is simple. Warm water, a mild soap, and you’re sorted.

Want the full beginner breakdown? We’ve put together a guide with everything you need to know: Anal Sex Beginners Guide: Safety, Comfort and Pleasure Made Simple. It’s straightforward, practical, and completely judgement-free.

The simple truth is this: if you’re curious, you’re ready to begin. Let 18 April be the excuse you’ve been waiting for.

Already Into It? Time to Turn Things Up.

If you already know what you like and you’re ready for more, Anal April is absolutely your kind of month.

Whether you love the satisfying weight of a metal plug, the smooth stretch of silicone, a playful design with a gem or tail, or combining anal play with other toys for more intense full-body pleasure, this is the perfect time to treat yourself to something new.

Anyone with a bit of experience knows the details make all the difference: the right material, the right size, the right shape, and the right fit for wearing during sex or solo play. They also know that anal pleasure isn’t only about the physical feeling. It’s about anticipation, the slow build-up, and that delicious sense of fullness that intensifies everything else happening at the same time.

Explore our full anal plug collection and our anal vibrators to discover your next obsession. And never underestimate the power of the right lube. Our silicone-based anal lubricants are long-lasting, silky smooth, and made for exactly this kind of pleasure.

Meet Your Gift: Sunfo Anal Plug

Sunfo creates body-safe anal plug designs that look just as gorgeous as they feel. The range includes both silicone and metal options, all made from hypoallergenic, easy-to-clean materials that are safe for your body and designed to last.

What makes Sunfo stand out? The finishing touches. Think jewel-encrusted base designs in heart shapes, sparkling gems in pink, red, blue, purple, and rainbow colours. Think sleek silver and gold metal plugs with a deliciously weighty feel. Think playful fox tail and bunny tail styles for anyone who likes a little fantasy mixed into their fun. These are the kind of plugs you genuinely want in your collection, not just in your bedside drawer.

Silicone plug designs are soft, flexible, and ideal for beginners or for wearing over a longer period. They warm gently with your body and feel wonderfully natural. Metal plug styles bring firmer pressure, a heavier sensation, and the option to enjoy temperature play too. Cool them down or warm them up to add another layer of sensation.

Every Sunfo plug is made with a tapered tip for easier insertion, a secure flared base for safe wear, and an eye-catching finish that makes it almost too pretty to hide away.

Browse the full Sunfo anal plug collection here.

Make April One to Remember

Whether 18 April marks your first time exploring or your hundredth, one thing stays the same: pleasure deserves celebrating. Anal April is all about curiosity, confidence, and having fun, whether that’s on your own or with someone else.

Spend £72 at Desirel, choose your free Sunfo plug, and make this the month you finally went for it.

Happy Anal April. 🍑

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